I don’t know what to do anymore. I hate whoever came up with the concept of promises, because no one keeps them. They just make the promise to either shut you up or make you “happy”. And then they continue doing doing what they’re doing, behind your back or even with you knowing. Because they really don’t care about the promises they made to you, they just want to impress you or just make you happy. Maybe I shouldn’t make people make promises to me because all that ever leaves me with is disappointment.
And I’m sick of excuses people make when you catch them in the process of breaking the promise they made to you. Saying “oh it was just this one time” or some other bullshit excuse in hopes that you’ll just say okay and ignore it. Only for them to continue to break the promise over and over again.
I’m tired of hearing people say sorry but not meaning it. Saying sorry and then you turn your back and they’re doing the same fucking thing that they said sorry for. If you say sorry then that means that you won’t do it again. Otherwise I don’t want to hear it.
And I don’t want anymore people making me promises. Not unless they can, for certain, keep that promise. I’m sick of how crappy I feel when I catch people breaking their promise to me. It’s not a good feeling, it makes me heart, physically, hurt. I want to punch a wall sometimes I get so frustrated! It doesn’t make me feel good when people break their promises to me. It makes me feel like they don’t respect me or my feelings. And then I feel like I’m the bad guy for yelling at the person when they break their promise or when I’m trying to get them to keep their promise.
I just. I don’t know what to do anymore. What to say because whenever I try to i feel like I’m being over controlling/ the “bad guy” and I don’t want to be either of those things. But I also don’t want to feel so fucking crappy like I do when people constantly break their promise. This just feels like a lose-lose situation. I mean really, how hard is to just say “I don’t know if I can keep that promise” IF YOU DONT THINK YOU CAN ACTUALLY KEEP THE PROMISE. DONT MAKE A PROMISE, THEN REPEATEDLY BREAK IT BECAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL REALLY SHITTY AND STRESSED AND I ALREADY AM FUCKING STRESSED ABOUT 2456642727383 OTHER CRAP AND I DONT WANT TO BE STRESSED ABOUT STUPID FUCKING PROMISES PEOPLE SHOULD HAVE NEVER MADE IN THE FIRST PLACE.
(Person/people/their basically all refer to my boyfriend and how he promised me he would quit smoking and has yet to fully do so. While he has gotten a bit better I have caught him smoking at work and he doesn’t tell me, so the only reason I know is when I hear about it from other people who I work with or catch him in the act or in the rare few occasions when he does tell me. )
I really fucking hate it when guys act like marriage is literally the end of their lives like if it’s so fucking bad, and you hate it so much, don’t get fucking married and put your spouse through hell because you’re shit. If you feel trapped you’re doing it wrong.
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overprotective parents raise the best liars.
but seriously, i mean i don´t even do bad things and i have to lie a lot
"No matter how bad you fuck up at work, you didn’t fucked up this bad"
do you ever get your period and just think about your recent behavior like wow that explains a lot
I will reblog this everyday
i hit my coworkers shoulder lightly and he was like “you’re going to make me cry like a girl” and i was like “what’s wrong with being a girl?” and he was quiet for a moment then he looked into the distance and whispered “the social standards they’re forced to live by”
this is something that’s really important for people to understand, and that most people don’t
THIS. THIS SO MUCH.
If you’re not excited about all this Armor, you’re wrong
old ass ppl talk shit about my generation until they accidentally disable their wifi and cant figure out how to turn it back on
then im suddenly the mastermind of information & resources